Yearly Archives: 2010

Here is a list of the most popular names in the US for cuddly little infants in 1919 (Who are now 91). My mom, Fern, born 9/9/1919,  came in at #176. Good heavens, her presence is strong with me today. … Continue reading →

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(This was written for Bliss Magazine 2 yrs ago) Today I watch my 20something daughters pack for the great unknown that marks the beginning of their adulthood.  On the other channel, my 89 year-old mother is living in the great … Continue reading →

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In the Baemba tribe of South Africa, when a person acts irresponsibly or unjustly, he is placed in the center of the village, alone and unfettered. All work ceases, and every man, woman, and child in the village gathers in … Continue reading →

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(This was first published over three years ago, when my mother was hospitalized for a short stint. I thought it was worth repeating after reading Chris Bohjalian’s Thanksgiving article.) Hospital Psychosis can ruin your whole day. There always seems to … Continue reading →

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Christine, the author of, among others, The Power of Slow, had a chat with me just a week after my mother passed, and suggested we dedicate our talk in honor of her. Press the Play arrow below and you’re good … Continue reading →

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As you might know by now, my work as a coach and my subsequent research on what causes dis-ease tends towards metaphysical. From my perch, it makes the most sense, provides the most consistent explanations and the corresponding approaches have … Continue reading →

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I was aware today, that a mourning cloud has gently floated away. I felt the presence of Fern more than her absence. If it’s true that there is a gap between the time a soul ascends and when it is … Continue reading →

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What might be more important than dramatizing Alzheimer’s and dementia is to learn to accept it. We want to treat it, beat it, wring our hands and gnash our teeth. Of course, if that is what fulfills and inspires you, … Continue reading →

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It’s a little hard to describe,  how important encouraging people to connect with elders is to me. And how important my own connections are. This past weekend my sisters and I hosted a celebration of gratitude for my recently-passed mother, … Continue reading →

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Honest to goodness, this was my horoscope the night I was called to my mother’s bedside, two days before she passed: Aquarius: A must appearance is inevitable. You need to visit with a parent or older friend. Flippin’ A! Share … Continue reading →

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